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It’s no secret that Southeast Asia is known for sex trafficking and sex slavery. It’s also no secret that’s where my heart lies. After some research I found a red light district less than a half mile from the hostel my team and I are staying. It’s a block of bars, pubs, dance clubs, massage parlors and motels that are all hubs for selling girls. Prostitution is illegal in Vietnam. You won’t see girls on corners with provocative clothing scanning for men. They aren’t in plain sight and they aren’t what you see in movies. They’re regular girls I pass on the street every day. They’re girls that make my coffee at the corner café. They’re girls that just seated me at a restaurant or made my dinner. They’re girls that are trapped with no voice and seemingly no hope. 

I got to meet and talk to these girls. They are just like me – love to talk, have passions and interests, their favorite food is pizza, they have siblings, they laugh openly and seem to have hearts so full of love. Some can speak English, some not so much. I’ve learned to love google translate conversations. Being able to bridge a language barrier is such a blessing. 

A few nights ago my friend and teammate Lauren and I were out at night walking around the block praying and asking the Holy Spirit for direction. We quickly stumbled upon an alley of motels in between several bars, easily overlooked by the average traveler. We observed long enough to see a young, beautiful girl come out of one of the rooms. Lauren immediately felt called to follow her and talk to her. We learned her name and some uneasy details.. she works all night, she works hourly and she didn’t have time to have dinner with us and talk. I offered to buy her dinner and her time. She was getting off work soon and we told her we were eager and happy to wait for her. So we did, we waited. I was pretty skeptical she’d come back. Oh was I surprised when she came back and brought her friend! We had the best time together. The conversation was mainly said through laughter and smiles from all of us. I was so touched to see their friendship together. They had only been ‘working’ together for one month but seemed like life long friends. I felt the Holy Spirit move so much in that conversation with them. Lauren and I didn’t get to share the gospel with them verbally but felt it displayed in every other way. We became Facebook friends, they were persistent and so generous to buy the food we shared, and we exchanged several long and warm embraces. My heart was soaring and breaking all at the same time. After they left Lauren and I were basically a puddle on the floor. I felt the Father’s love so strongly for them and through them! 

I don’t know where they were going when they left. I don’t know what their night is going to look like tonight. I don’t know if I’ll get to have another conversation with them again, I pray I do! I pray for their rescue and safety routinely now. My nights in Vietnam have been hard. Good kind of hard that makes me ready for another night. I’m going to make every night count while I’m here. I’m going to fight and pray and love them the best I can and the best I know how. 

12 responses to “my nights in the red lights”

  1. Love the obvious love in your heart and your courage, faithfulness and determination. May the blessings of God overtake you as you walk in the way He has planned for you; spreading His glorious love!

  2. How beautiful your heart and your motivation!! I am honored to know you and be loved by you. I’m praying with your for freedom and salvation!

  3. Your journey with your friends have me marveling anew at our Great God- the passion and courage and pure love He instills, the safety, health, opportunities He has afforded you all on your journey- the humbling partnership we here at home can have with Him and you to pray you on your way! And of course- His deep, deep love for those He’s sent you to. Press on. We’ll pray on.

  4. It’s clear the Lord is protecting, strengthening and confirming His calling to you. It is one of the greatest blessings there is, to be where you know the Lord wants you, doing what He has called you to. Thank you for your faithfulness and sharing.

  5. I know that this has been your passion and I love that God is leading you on this journey. Prayers for you, Lauren and all the new friends you meet, while you continue to follow the gentle whispers of The Holy Spirit for direction. God’s presence in the time spent together shining His Light and showing His Love to these young ladies! I know the safest place for you, my sweet girl is to be in the center of God’s Will..as you are doing that… God is stretching your Momma! In Trusting him there is Great Peace! Love you Miss!

  6. Thank you Shari! Your prayers and encouragement mean so much to me! You’ve loved me so well from afar and for that I’m grateful!

  7. It’s so true! Thank you for your reminder and for reading! I appreciate all your prayers Sandy!